Mothers can never be wrong. When we end up doing something wrong, some voice back in our head says, mommy was right or I should have listened to her. Mother guides her kids on every step they take. Also when it comes to settling down and getting married here are some marriage secrets that you need to share with your daughter.
It is obvious that true love is all about being selfless, care and affection. Make sure that you daughter sees this all in her to be husband. There is not point in tying the knot if you do not feel any of these things. Fear of being alone for the rest of life should not be the reason that you should end up being with someone whom you don’t love or loves you back.
One should not test love. Love is not some sort of an examine that the person has to clear in order to show that he is smart. Testing love is nothing but a hidden side of fear and insecurities that you are feeling deep down. Make your daughter to understand that love is supposed to be unconditional and trust is very important. These are the basic things for a healthy relationship.
You cannot love someone if you cannot love yourself. This doesn’t mean that you end up being self obsessed. Sometimes, when it comes to marriage you have to place others like your in laws or your partner before yourself. This doesn’t mean that you should forget and not care for yourself. You just need to know when to act how. Space is something that is very important this generation. Giving space to your partner is very important. Just as much you need some time and space for yourself so does your partner needs his time and space. One should avoid the feeling of possessiveness, doubting and jealousy. These things many a times kill the spark.
A mother should always boost the confidence of her daughter. You should make her understand that if she believes in herself nothing can ever get in her way. She should be just herself and the man who is trying to chance her is simply not good for her. Always believe in yourself. Maybe the first few months of marriage could be tough but whatever is a tough in end turns to be good. In marriage you should always accept your partner for all the good and bad. Rather than giving up, work on things.