Children are considered as our future. But as they grow up, they look upon us as their role model. A little more they grow and then they start to evaluate their parents. Well this is normal and if you kid does something like this, its natural. Do not be sad. It happens to every parent. Of course, we all want a happy family. And here is how you can get one.

Your children will consider you next to god, in the beginning. But as time passes by, things change. While parents age, their children grow up. Problems like financial climate at home or less of mutual understanding could result into conflicts or lead to a communication barrier between parents and children. So you need to understand that just like you and me, children are also a human personality, only difference is that they are little. So you need to treat them with love and respect. And that is one way rather a sole way of having a healthy family.

The concept of upbringing is always connected to healthy family. A right upbringing can make a person better. Upbringing goes with the idea of as you sow, so you shall reap. It is a parents job to inculcate the good or bad ideas and thoughts into their children. The environment in which your child is bought up is very important. This is what makes him different from the world. Continuous fights lowers the child’s self esteem and makes him scared and nervous all the time. And that is when they blame the parent for their losses. Also instead of looking for a way out, they run from the problem and spend years in getting over the problem. So you need to do everything to make your kids happy.

You need to teach your kids to share and respect others. And this will develop a sense of gratitude among them and will appreciate things. Remember that a child is nothing but a reflection of his parents. Now matter how good you try to make your children, they will reflect some of your qualities. Now these qualities could be good or bad as well. Children tend to copy their parents actions, behavior and manners. They enjoy using the same jokes that they must have seen you using . You are your child’s very first teacher. They will imitate the way you dress and talk. Also your kid can borrow some of your bad habits as well. The best way to know your bad habits is by closely observing your children. All you can try to do is avoid showing your anger or any other bad traits in front of them.