We girls, all are eagerly waiting for some tall dark handsome man to come and shaken the ground beneath us, aren’t we? But things like these happen only in Disney fairy tales and not in real life situation. So, it’s about time that you kill the age old tradition of waiting for the guy to make the first move. Buckle up and go take leap of faith ask the guy you like out! Why? Here are 9 reasons why you should make the first move.
What is the most frustrating thing when you have a crush on someone? Right! The decoding of signals. Boy, its damn annoying. It is like slow death. So what do you end up doing? Letting some stupid flower petal decide, whether he likes you, or likes you not? Just put an end to this childish game and simply take the first step. This way you will know the answer. There is nothing to loose in this case. If he likes you, you have hit a jackpot on the other hand if he doesn’t then, you can simply move on to a new crush.
One thing men truly love and appreciate about a women is her confidence. When you show a guy that you’re into him, it reflects your boldness and open-mindedness and just in case if he laughs or makes fun or acts awkward, trust on this part- he is so not worth of your time. If he is a nice guy, he will turn you down politely if he is not interested.
There could be a chance the guy is shy or maybe he is not sure about his feelings. Just kill the daydreaming and make it happen. Turn your daydreaming into reality. And you never know, maybe if he knows you’re into him, he might start looking at you as more than just a friend.
Folks, this is not the 50’s! We need to simply move along the change of time. This is not the olden days where chivalry was a man’s honor. These days men have more on their mind than just courting women. So why not take the initiative and ask him? Don’t wait around! Today, we consider man and women equal, so why not in dating too? Change these old rules and ask him out.
Face this fact- men love women who take things in charge. So go ahead and ask him out on a date. Maybe he is not interested in you, yet he will take notice of it and will be flattered. It could be sad if he says no to you, but just imagine on the other hand, if he says yes to you, you can brag about it for a lifetime. You can tell people that it happened because of you!
And lastly, remember this, you at least tried whether it worked or not is altogether a different matter. And it will feel great to put yourself out there and do something that probably scares the bejesus out of you. Go treat yourself for simply having the courage to do it. Remember girls, all you need is 20 seconds of courage and something beautiful will come out of it!