You are a unique person God has designed you uniquely with special attributes so just be yourself, people will like to see more “you” in you and not someone else in you. Never copy some one, speak what you feel and not what others make you say or want to hear. You are the best when you are yourself.
Don’t worry about what other people think. Respect the opinion of others, but don’t let them push you in a different direction if you don’t agree.
Don’t compare yourself to other people. It’s difficult enough to understand how you have reached achieved a position for yourself in life, so how could you work out anyone else’s? Someone else may look more successful than you, but they may have problems you can’t even imagine. Comparisons are pointless, because you don’t have all the information about anyone’s life.
Listen to yourself and be positive about your likes and dislikes. Work out what interests you and what makes you happy to wake up every morning. It all moves toward your individual personality. You don’t have to be anyone or do anything that you don’t want to be or do. So listen to what you love and enjoy each day striving for more of those things;
Accept when you’re wrong because nobody is perfect, so take the rough with the smooth.You don’t have to tell everyone every detail of your life. There are people who start revealing details of their life at the first meeting itself these are all sort of private (and sometimes, upsetting) detail of their life so far. That’s not the point of being open. An open attitude is when you don’t hide behind your failures, when you don’t hold back from what you enjoy.
A genuine personality takes the situation in front of them, sticks to what they believe, gives their true opinion and gives the same respect to everyone but does this in varying ways. The trick is having the confidence to interact with many different people in ways that they can relate to, while you maintain your own personal views.
The second question that arises is that how do you relate to others?
Listen: People like to talk about themselves and they like to answer questions. So stop talking so much, start listening and ask a few questions. This alone is a big deal.
Respect: Not everyone is like you. It’s fine to respectfully disagree with another person’s views. Respect helps to build up relations. You don’t need to dismiss someone because they don’t agree with you and viceversa.
Be humble: Modesty and courtesy can go a long way. Whether you’re crazy and loud, or quiet and reserved, be who you want so long as you accept that others can be too. There’s no need to compete or outshine others. If others want to compete, let them do that while you go elsewhere to have some proper fun.
Don’t hold back: Have the strength to be genuine and situations are easier to deal with, not more difficult. Acceptance comes more freely when you’re happy to fight your corner.