We all long for love and not any love but true love. We dream of finding that one right person who will make things simple for us. We run after it for forever. But every time you think you have grasped it, it slips through your fingers. Or it breaks them, along with your heart. And then you end up questioning yourself, ‘what I’m I doing!’ here are 7 essential things about true love that you need to know for sure. These 7 essential things about true love will lead you to over the moon, incredible, never ending romance.
Try being at peace with who you are. Imagine enjoying what is strong about you and focusing on growing within that instead of working hard to hide your weaknesses, afraid that someone might leave you because of them. Therefore, always be yourself. When you like yourself, you become your own champion. Imagine standing up to protect your heart being natural to you. Imagine discomfort triggering you to step up and say what it is you are feeling or fearing. When you become yourself, this is how you will learn to be. You will recognize someone who has the potential to love you as you need to be loved. On the flipside, you will also recognize when someone is not able to be that one.
The most successful relationships are the ones where both the partners are strong enough individually to put themselves aside and see life through the eyes of that special someone in their life. Make it your aim to create an atmosphere of safety where both of you can rest, grow and thrive.
There are many questions that we need to ask ourself. Thrills, fun, edge of your seat suspense, surprise just when you need it. Imagine the unexpected challenges arising in your life and being able to think through and plan a strategy alongside someone you trust and respect. Look through the eyes of the one you love for a moment. Do you know what makes them laugh or what kind of surprises they love? Do you understand what they anticipate or look forward to doing?
How much we all long to be connected. Thus we have communities, sports teams, clubs and groups of every kind. It’s healthy to be a part of what interests us outside of our relationships but how often do we begin to prefer to spend time there because the bond between us and our loved one is broken. That man or woman in your life aches for this as much as you do. Open your heart and search for as many ways to connect with them as possible. Learn to listen and to enjoy some of the activities that they enjoy.