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Is it love? 6 Tips for dating

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Is it love? 6 Tips for dating

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Love is sweet, love is kind and in love we all loose our mind. Love takes you altogether on a new highs. And in that moment life is la vi en rose. But if things go wrong life is devastating. Here are some great tips for dating to help you keep your head during this exciting time.

1. Take your time: Many people date while some don’t. Girls need to feel good about themselves before they start to date. If you are not ready to date, it’s cool to stay single and hang out with your close friends.

2. Find someone who likes you back: Feelings that aren’t returned can make you question everything about yourself. Did you say something wrong? Were you wearing the wrong things? In a healthy relationship, the feelings are mutual. You respect each other and have fun together. If this doesn’t describe your situation, there’s nothing wrong with you, but you probably do need to keep looking.

3. Know when to move on: Sometimes when you know that things are not going to work out, it is probably for the best that you move on. Maybe the love of your life has turned mean and selfish. Maybe you realize you want something better. If a boyfriend doesn’t give you what you need, walk away. It may obviously hurt in the beginning but you will get through it.

4. Talk about Facebook before you talk on Facebook: Social media puts the ups and downs of dating out there for everyone to see. If you like a guy or he likes you, it’s perfectly OK to ask him not to post things about you online, including pictures. Some things don’t have to be shared with the whole world.

5. Protect yourself from pressure: Pressure is not love. Decide ahead of time what your values are and how far you want to go. That way, you won’t have to figure it out in the heat of the moment. Just to stay out of that pressure what you can do is mentally prepare yourself about certain things. Avoid situations where a guy might expect more than you want to give.

6. Give time for love to grow: The last and the most important is that give love the time that it needs to grow. Sometimes the idea of love is better than love itself. How do you know if you’re really in love? If you’re infatuated, need constant reassurance, and have trouble thinking about anything else, these are signs you’re not really in love. It’s fun for now, but in time you’ll probably feel disappointed. A stronger and mature love grows stronger over a period of time. The more you get to know each other, the stronger your feelings. And you don’t have to be someone you’re not. You like each other for who you truly are.

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