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Time to break the age old marriage rules

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Time to break the age old marriage rules

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People say if you want a healthy marriage you need to follow some marriage rules. Wondering what marriage rules? They are some age old rules which have been followed since Adam- Eve time. But don’t you thing that these rules should be altered or changed in some way. It is not like in the olden days when things were easy. Today, people are different and they expect that the world should accept them for who they are. Some feel that these rule are to be strictly followed while some feel that its time to break rule. Still wondering what the marriage rules are? Here, read them!

1. Always sleeping together: Times have changed. Couples, today, are seen sleeping in different rooms. The reason, well…they are simply different. Do not be heartbroken if you are separately sleeping once a while. And do not draw conclusions that your marriage is on the verge of dying. That is not true. In fact enjoy this time of separate sleeping. The moment you will sleep separately, you will focus more on your thoughts and then reflect on how to avoid such situations later in life.

2. Fighting will only lead to a divorce: Unsolved problems usually lead to a divorce. Being clear is very important in any relationship. Having an argument and then getting a divorce is really stupid. There are certain disputes that can be handled well and by not considering divorce as the only way to get rid of the problems. If you want to and feel that you should stay together somehow, the thought of divorce will not pop up in your head. This may sound cheesy, but such moments only show the true strength of your love.

3. Together vacationing: Vacationing together is no more seen. On the other hand, vacationing apart gives you the time to explore and somehow it also strengthens the love. It is obvious that women and men have a different look towards nature and all the things around them. When you will be vacationing apart you are most likely to not feel lonely. In fact it will give you the space that you need.

4. Same hobbies: Gone are the days when the couples had same hobbies. It is okay that if you do not like your partners hobby or vice versa. Tastes differ. If you have different hobbies what you can do is talk about it and do not ever force it on to someone. This will only give you a hard time.

5. Do not go to bed angry: Fighting is never good. Never leave a fight incomplete. Because this will only trouble you in the morning. It is like an undone chapter. Also night time is the time when you will be having more thoughts over the issue. So you should get it cleared then and there.

6. Honesty vow: Being completely honest is not possible. There will be couple of things that you will feel not telling your partner. But this does not mean that you end up telling lies. Being honest every time could possibly hurt the feelings as well.

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